@sarahtims Mamamia is all about empowering women and one of the things women have been told from day dot is that sex is shameful and “vulgar”. Mamamia and women in general are taking back their power and talking about sex and topics that have too often been kept quiet. When we can’t discuss something that makes us feel isolated and down then we lose who we are and being open and discussing these things normalises it and makes it ok. It takes away the shame and the vilification. I hope you can appreciate that some of us women want to understand our bodies and sex and that we aren’t alone when understanding our sex drive or sexuality. This is the place for it and if you don’t want to be a part of it then I suggest you don’t subscribe but I hope you too can learn that sex is not vulgar it is a beautiful and natural thing. Sending good vibes. 

1. Low rise pants

Had an episiotomy without consent and no medical reason to do so. It was a traumatic birth as I was in surgery straight after but it didn’t feel right and I ended up going via freedom of information and an independent specialist to discover the violation. Medical specialists should be held accountable for their actions and as the mother you should know what course of action to take if you feel your needs aren’t being taken into consideration. 

Disagree with the calm birth comment… I felt like it empowered me enough to know all my options. Yes, it teaches you to believe in your body and natural birth but it’s more about empowering you and fighting for what YOU want if you’re being pressured by some medical practitioners who believe they know better. If by 5 hours you want to have an epidural it doesn’t advocate against it just allows you to be fully knowledgeable to make those informed decisions. 

This  appears to be leaving out information that doesn’t suit the story they are trying to tell. There are two different amounts prescribed, those using the drug for diabetes are prescribed a greater dose than those using it for weight loss. And there are two different waiting lists at pharmacies for each dose with the larger doses being given priority. The reason behind the shortage isn’t because of the sudden interest but because the manufacturer has prioritised Covid-19 vaccines which they also make. 

Mare of Easttown, why women kill, sex education…. All amazinngggg can I add Working Moms on Netflix? For mums this is 100% binge-worthyyyy 

I saw this curve show and as a size 14 was extremely disappointed. There’s still a lot of work to do, why do the designers not make clothes as beautiful, as flattering for larger bodies. I’d love to see a bit more innovative design for big girls and calling out of some designers who only go to a size 12 IF THAT- I’m looking at you Scanlan Theodore, Manning Cartel and even brands like Kookai. 

So far I hate it. Charlotte is annoying. She was emotional but she wouldn’t be the type to take away from a friends grief. Miranda is annoying. She never used to come across as an idiot but she does in this- so cringey. And eegadzzz the signs of her being an alcoholic are so obvious. Brady is annoying. Stanford is annoying- I truly hope they can redeem his character before they have to write him out. so far I’m disappointed…. The fan in me is hoping they redeem it 🙏🏼

All well and good- but WHAT can we actually do about this as the public? If these are the people leading our country and ultimately voting on behalf of us everyday people then how do we go about changing this? And I’m not talking about long term down the track voting I’m taking right now, let’s throw this decision back to parliament to re vote, to re look at. They are supposed to represent us, so start listening to us. Help us by giving us some things we can do to create change. 

You can rent snoo’s on Facebook marketplace if people are interested. But we did without and didn’t have an issue. Also second the suits with zips and stretchy swaddles but i couldn’t express or breast feed despite trying so hard so not everyone would find that relevant and maybe worth saving your money until you have bubbs to figure out what’s going to work for you. And babydink is just as good as konny wrap and Australian made. 

I’m not angry anymore I’m just tired, so very tired of the constant cycle we’re in. The thought that this will never end, I totally understand the politicians are doing the right thing and we need to look out for one another but when do we draw the line? The line that looks after small businesses in the beauty, hospitality and health industries, the line that looks after mental health. How can we aim for 70% vaccination with the rate our vaccines are being produced and supplied? It can’t keep going on like this because by lockdown 6.0 I am just so very tired. 

Do yourself a favour and watch ‘The Serpent’ and ‘Unbelievable’ they were FANTASTIC 

Aaahhh I so relate to the feeling of comparing my body to mums with newborns when my baby is older or having the pram nearby so people don’t judge me. Sad but reality we put too much pressure on weight loss and looking ‘fit’ rather then acknowledging what our amazing bodies have just done. 

What’s with the sleeves being pushed up?! If your going to wear a jacket it’s usually because it’s cold... just makes me wonder why you’d bother buying it if you didn’t actually know what it looked like 

I was under the impression from friends going from 0 to 1 was harder then going from 1 to 2 but found that was not the case personally. 1 to 2 was sooooo much harder and I wondered everyday for the first few months if I had made the right decision to have another. Thankfully I got into my groove around the 5-6 month mark and learnt to relax as well. All I can say is forgive yourself and don’t hold yourself to impossible standards. 

Far out good on her for standing up and posting this. Such a shame there are so many trolls out there and the irony is they’re probably ‘fat’ themselves sitting and judging people without knowing the story behind the body. 

He didn’t kill those members but the way he treated them in their final moments is how I hope he is treated in his. Our justice system is absolutely disgraceful- the 8 months were for his driving offences and only 2 months were for the way he behaved when four human beings were dying in front of him. I hope he looks in the mirror everyday and sees what a worthless human being he is. 

I loved this series of MasterChef with the new judges and returning contestants and Laura was one of my favourites. I find it sad we have to make drama in all series these days, why can’t we focus on what they’re about like talent in the kitchen or building/renovating etc. If you want to be a troll or see something with ‘drama’ go watch series like married at first sight which has devolved into absolute c**p. 

People need to stop watching this s**t. The more people watch it the more likely the producers will pull this c**p for ratings so do the right thing and TURN IT OFF. It’s 2021 for gods sake why do we watch a show that makes people rank based on looks. Pathetic. 

I’ve asked for natural makeup a number of times, just means you want to stick to more nude tones and not be over done. Also, try not blinking when a stranger comes at you with an eye pencil and mascara - literally your bodies natural reaction to blink lol