Both things can be true.  Men use violence as a tool of control - but they seem to want to control conventionally attractive people more.

So, the more attractive, the higher your head is above the parapet, as it were.  But you might still be unlucky and cop a bullet regardless.

Foul cage eggs may be $6 a dozen, but ethical eggs are $12-$13. making the maths in this quite bogus.

I believe that you should name them.  The only thing that will stop this behaviour is public knowledge of it. 

A sign which merely shows the speed of a car to the driver, without consequences (except for a frowny face), will cause most drivers to slow to the speed limit or below. Public scrutiny and judgement of any sort improves behaviour.

And people who stalk clearly have an external locus of identity. So having their actions publicly stated might be enough to shame them into stopping. It's worth a try.

If a single woman sleeps with a man who is in another relationship, it is on him. She is not cheating anyone.  He is. She is not the gatekeeper of his marriage, he is. Anyone who thinks differently has internalised misogyny and probably deserves the world of pain they will live in when he does it again. (and, no this is not special pleading. I speak from observation not experience.)

The police have been created to protect the property of men from other men.  They should not be involved in any matters of family violence.

I'm trying to give a rats about this toxic real-life telenovella but really just can't.

We will never see change while the police take the view, as stated by a policeman involved in the last but one murder (cause we've already had one more in the same week) that "the perpetrator had no record - apart from a minor DV incident'. What change do I want to see? 1. there are NO minor DV incidents.

So long as the policeman investigating regards the history of DV as 'nothing significant' there will be no change.

Came in prepared to hate this cause I'd be judged, but had to laugh - 4 pillow user here.

I've been using Hamilton everyday face for about 30 years now and I swear by it. I'm never without a tube.  When I compare my forearms (was never as diligent) with my face and chest, the benefits are very marked indeed (rather like my forearms, sadly). Big thumbs up.

The stupidity of the 'apology' compounds the act itself.

MCoBeauty cheek/lip stain. I'm always looking for a stain-based colour for similar reasons and I've found this to be good.

Yes, right next to the workers producing the the 'vrai' product in identical conditions.

That's grand. And what compromises is he making?

This should surprise nobody. The demographic that supplies the majority of police, the one providing the majority of domestic abusers - put it this way, the venn diagram would look like a single circle.