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Content warning: This story deals with sexual violence.
Once considered a niche sexual kink, non-fatal strangulation, colloquially known as 'choking', during sex has become increasingly normalised.
While BDSM has also grown in popularity, thanks to the '50 Shades of Grey effect' (although the BDSM community insists the practice was misrepresented in the films), choking appears to have risen above the notion of 'rough sex', and settled itself into the mainstream.
"It seems to be something that is happening more with young people which makes sense when we look at the rise of social media and the easy access to pornography online," says certified sex educator Emma Hewitt.
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Choking is a colloquial term, but the practice itself is a form of strangulation, as it’s performed by squeezing or pressing on the neck. It’s also sometimes referred to as 'breath play'.
Before the term 'choking', was popularised to describe what is essentially temporary asphyxiation or cutting off blood flow to the brain during sex, discussion of the practice was more frequently found in literature on domestic and sexual violence, where is it referred to as non-fatal strangulation (NFS).
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