For some, the lead up to a wedding day is a messy path of stress, over-zealous planning, ridiculous requests and the haemorrhaging of money.
But for one groom-to-be, it’s become defined by an interesting request from his soon-to-be wife.
Posting on Reddit, user TA180219 says he “loves” his fiancée because “she is beautiful, kind and intelligent” and all he has “ever wanted from a woman”.
“We have been together for six years, friends for three years before that. I couldn’t imagine spending my life with anyone else, so I proposed in January and she made me the happiest guy ever by saying yes.
“But yesterday Lucy asked me if I could do just one ‘small’ thing before the wedding – whiten my teeth.”
Reddit user TA180219 explained that when he was a teenager, he fell and hit his face on a curb, breaking a few of his front teeth.
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“My dentist managed to ‘save’ them, in the sense that I still have my original teeth, but they no longer have nerves and darkened a fair bit afterwards.
“I’m not going to lie and say that I love the fact that my teeth have darkened, for photos I tend to keep my mouth closed, but they have become a part of who I am now (16 years later) and I’ve always thought that if someone can’t accept me the way I am then screw them. But I love her, and I want to make her happy.”
He went on to say this “request” is “not new”.
“Lucy has brought the subject up before and I’ve always point blank refused, I gave excuses about money or said that I couldn’t understand why she didn’t just accept it. It’s been a while since it was last brought up though.
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Do it. I have worked in a dental office for 25 years and I’ll say it again. DO IT. In fact I wouldn’t bleach although that’s the cheapest, I would do lummineers or veneers. I know that would cost several thousand dollars but compared to your wedding budget? The wedding will be over in a day. Within one year you will no longer open the photo album to look over the pictures you paid thousands of dollars for. In two years nobody will remember what you fed them, what song they danced to or what your wife’s wedding dress looked like. But your teeth? They will look amazing for years to come! You will be a changed man. You will laugh out loud without first covering your mouth with your hand. Every photo will show you smiling and enjoying the moment without the fight to keep your mouth closed while smiling. DO IT. I’ve seen it change people’s lives for the better. I’ve never had a patient complain that they look too good. DO IT for her, DO IT for you!!!!
I can imagine that if the roles were reversed and it was the man asking the woman to get her teeth whitened, we would be having a veeeeery different conversation and he would have received very different advice... oh but #equality right?
Somehow I think many women would probably seek to rectify partially blackened front teeth for their wedding day without needing to be asked by their fiancé though. It’s interesting how a man is comfortable, but I really don’t think many women would be.