My Daughters too haven't talked to me, in years. and one is 40 and the other in her 30's. I have on many of my messages via text begged for their forgiveness (they will not answer my calls and one has even blocked my number) for disappointing them and not being up to their expectations of me as a dad. This estrangement is terrible, and I find the pain truly unbearable and suffer on a daily basis even though it has been 16 long years. I too pray sincerely that no one should ever go through this.