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nogomet77 July 12, 2024

I cannot believe that we allow this to happen in Australia. The government needs to do more to outlaw extreme religions and sects. 

nogomet77 May 8, 2021

I grew up the eldest of 4 children in a European background household where both of my parents were smacked (& worse) growing up. They then perpetuated this same abusive parenting on (mostly) me. I'd be smacked with sticks which were strategically placed around the house (for quick access). Once the sticks started to break my dad had the bright idea to cut up an old garden hose, that one hurt far worse, usually copped it on the hands & the back of the legs. I'd also be hit on the head (hard) with his fork at the dinner table. It's no surprise that I grew up extremely aggressive and took this out physically on my next sister + other kids at school. I was terrified that when I became a parent I would hit my own kids and I've really had to work hard to stop myself from doing it. 


This still hurts me (mentally & emotionally) now in my 40's. I used to feel sorry for my parents and their stories about the treatment they received from their parents but as I became an adult I became angry coming to the realisation that they could have changed that cycle and chose not to discpline their own kids in that way. I still haven't forgive my dad for it, even having a conversation with him in the last few years about it he still doesn't believe he did anything wrong stating 'well you all turned out ok didn't you'.