@hellb I love the openness of this idea/gesture too but strongly disagree with it being a vibrator. Thirteen is so incredibly young to be using a mechanical device to masturbate and - in my experience, using a vibrator really desensitized that area for me and that was as an adult! Exploration and sex positivity should be encouraged but a machine should not be involved when you're a child :(

@jl65 Completely agreed, Tilley's church sounds like it was cult-ish and not at all a reflection of what many churches are like - and especially not a reflection of Jesus! I hope Tilley comes back to the truth of who God is and how incredibly loved we are by him