Preparing for a children with your other half is very important but is not the only thing to consider. I am SA where sometimes when you get a job you see it a good chance to raise your child so that you can be able to support or give a good life. But even with that it becomes very difficult as working and taking care of a children is not easy in our country where all the Labour laws are just written but not followed by companies, you end up not having time to spend with your child I Mean even if they are sick. We really have to spend time with kids listen and know them better. Article very important.