She's trying way too hard

Stealthiing is sexual assault but not gender based, plenty of young gay men who are testing their boundaries are stealthed by older experienced men.

Why is everything a 'trauma'?

That's a look I could do without, I'd pass you a tissue thinking you were sweaty.

So she's be ok with her shopping trolley hitting a car, possibly with kids inside?

You said you were used to walking on eggshells around your daughter which contradicts everything else you said.