Sometimes we just don’t have time to stop and think about how much a simple act of random kindness can really make someone’s day or week or year. We’re so busy. We have things to do, meetings to schedule. It’s always go. But just one act of good can have so much power. This is a story about such a thing. A short, but powerful story. You will probably cry a little bit. Shannon Molloy is a media consultant and public relations guru from Queensland. He writes:
Grace with her ‘random’ present“A few weeks ago, I received an email invitation to attend Grace’s seventh birthday afternoon tea party. Problem was, I don’t know any kids with that name. I clicked through to the link to RSVP and noticed a bunch of Molloy surnames on the attendee list. Then, I noticed the address was in San Francisco.
Needless to say, the invitation wasn’t meant for me. I emailed the organiser and birthday girl’s mum, Mary, to let her know and she explained that a stray full stop meant her sister’s invite came to me.
We exchanged a few pleasant emails and I wished her the best for the big day. Then, and I’m still not sure why, I decided to send Grace a birthday present.
I figure I’d been invited and the family might get a chuckle out of a random gesture, and picked a six-tier cookie box tower. Then, I forgot all about it.
Until today, the day of the party, when Mary sent me the sweetest email.
Dear Shannon,
Thank you so very much for Grace’s present!! She was thrilled, and especially so when I told her the story of how you came to know about her party. She was absolutely delighted. She couldn’t believe someone from the other side of the world, who doesn’t even know her, sent her a present, and not just any present, but six of them filled with cookies and goodies!
I am forwarding you pictures of Grace and her friends at the party, and the first one was taken right when she received your present.
Again, thank you. It was just so very kind, and it really made Grace feel special! The babysitter was here when the gift arrived, and she started crying when she heard the story.
My mother now thinks we may be related, and we all want you to know that if you ever find yourself in San Francisco, you need to call.
My brother, who has been to Australia a couple of times, said you just reinforced what he always thought about Australians, that you are very kind people.
I could go on and on, but to say the least, everyone who has heard this story has been touched by your kindness.
It is people like you who truly restore my faith in humankind.
Mary and GraceI was a little surprised at what an impact such a simple gesture had made, especially when that had quickly slipped my mind. I was also incredibly touched. This was hardly what I sought to achieve when I made that snap decision to send a stranger – a child no less – a gift on her birthday. And yet, I’m not sure what I hoped to achieve.
Mary’s wonderful email put a smile on my face all day, as did the pictures of Grace’s awesome party. It seems I’ve made friends with some delightful members of the Molloy clan in San Francisco and I may just take them up on the offer of a visit if I’m ever in town. They seem like really nice people.”
Have you performed a random act of kindness lately? Have you ever had a complete stranger do something nice and out of the blue? Tell us, we want to hear some heart-cockle-warming stories.
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I stumbled across this tonight because I expanded a tweet to which you had responded, Shannon. Thank you for bringing some light into a very dark time for me.
I try and do little random acts when I can, because I have been the beneficiary of some amazing ones.
One that springs to mind is when, shortly after the birth of my daughter, and just after a major financial setback, I was at the supermarket checkout, trying to feed a family of three for a week on $50, when my card wouldn't go through. I tried returning a couple of items, but the last bit of money in my account had been taken out in fees (I later discovered). As I was desperately staring at my purse, trying to figure out a way to at least get the nappies and stuff for my baby, the lady behind me spoke, "Ring these up, and I'll get her groceries too".
I gaped at her in amazement and sputtered something about how I couldn't let her do that, and she told me, "I'm lucky, the days you're going through are behind me now, please let me do this to give thanks for that."
I wished I had been gracious and chatted to her, but instead I burst into tears, thanked her and hustled out of there... I'm not sure why, but I felt nearly as shamed as I did relieved.
Rest assured, her face has stuck in my mind, and I try and pay her kindness forward every chance I get.