'It goes... where?' How exactly to use a C-Shaped sex toy.

When it comes to sex toys, there are definitely shapes that can throw a user off. 

If they look complicated and confusing, sometimes it's easier to dismiss the whole thing than bravely explore it.

But we don't want you to miss out on a whole sector of pleasure, so we're here to explain what the heck to do with them – starting with C-Shaped sex toys.

But first, why are C-Shaped sex toys great?

C-Shaped sex toys such as the We-Vibe Sync 2 can be used solo or with a partner, and are designed with vulva-vagina pleasure anatomy in mind, targeting both the external clitoris (the clitoral glans and hood) and the internal clitoris (also known as the g-spot).

Based on the research as well as what I observe in practice, stimulation of the external clitoris is essential for many to orgasm during penetrative play, so these toys offer clitoral stimulation without using hands.

The Sync 2 offers an adjustable fit so you can find the best angles and positions for your own body (because all genitals can vary slightly in terms of size, location and vaginal angle).

A C-Shaped toy is designed to stay comfortably in place without the need to hold it, and the insertable arm of the toy is thin enough that it supports penetration while remaining in place.

When used during penetrative sex with a penis, the C-Shaped toys offer vibrations to both the shaft of the penis and vulva-vagina owner.

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How to use a C-shaped sex toy.

Using water-based lubricant on your genitals and the toy, insert the toy into the vagina while switched off, and position as feels the most comfortable for you.

Once in position, turn the toy on to the lowest setting first (particularly if it’s your first time using) so you can get a feel for the vibrations, and increase the intensity as feels the best to you. Play around with the different vibration pattern modes (and remember that you might not always enjoy the same thing) and adjust the toy as needed to maximise your pleasure.

Once you’ve found the pattern/intensity you like best in that moment, if you’re using the toy solo you can use your hands to touch other parts of your body that bring you pleasure such as nipples, inner thigh, neck etc. Choose your own adventure! If using with a partner, you can wear the toy and continue with non-penetrative and penetrative sexual activities with the Sync 2 or other C-Shaped toy remaining in place.

If you want to, you can change the intensity/patterns throughout, and you might even like your partner to control!

After use, wash using warm soapy water or a specific toy cleaner, and leave to dry before returning to its case/bag.

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And here's a few C-Shaped sex toy tips. For good measure.

• As with any genital stimulation, I always recommend starting with non-genital arousal first. Consider the ways you become aroused such as the context, whole body touch, breath and movement that starts to encourage blood flow and arousal to your genitals, and a desire and wanting to genital touch. 
• Remember that our brain is our biggest sex organ, meaning that physiological arousal often requires psychological arousal. Slowly building anticipation with a partner (or solo), using fantasy or talking can be great ways to build psychological arousal which promotes blood flow to the genitals and increases the experience of pleasure.
• Start on the lower settings first so you can get used to what feels best for you. Every vulva and vagina is unique in its experience of sensation, and some people prefer low rumbly vibrations while others enjoy more intense or varied patterns the best.
• Know that the same intensity/pattern may not always be what feels best for you, so play around with the settings each time you use it, and tune in to what your body is responding to the most in that moment.
• If dual stimulation of the external clitoris and g-spot isn’t what feels best for you, a C-Shaped toy such as the We-Vibe Jive offers the same hands-free experience while targeting internal clitoral/g-spot vibrations.

Feature Image: We-Vibe/Mamamia.

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