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Imagine if 68 Australian men had been murdered at the hands of women this year.

This story mentions domestic violence.

Imagine if 68 Australian men had been murdered so far this year.

Imagine if most of them had died at the hands of someone they trusted, someone who was supposed to love and care for them.

Imagine if the rest had perished at the hands of strangers, pure terror filling their final moments.

Watch: We lose one woman every week in Australia to domestic violence, but that's just the tip of a very grim iceberg. Post continues after video.

Imagine if, as men grappled with these frightening statistics, wondering whether they were safe to walk home at night, or if the streets were in fact safer than their own homes, women made jokes about violence against men.

Imagine if men were beaten to death in their places of work for ending relationships with their partners. Imagine if they were stabbed in their kitchens, in front of their children. Imagine if they were dragged into dark alleyways, their bodies dumped in even darker places.

Imagine if men were blamed for what befell them. Repeatedly. Imagine if they were told not to stay out late, not to drink too much, not to wear their favourite clothes, not to walk home alone.

Imagine if they were told all of this when the most dangerous place for them was in fact inside the four walls of those very homes.

Imagine if they called for change.

They'd get it. Swiftly.

Anthony Albanese would stand up in parliament; he'd make a rousing speech, while wearing a black tie. 

He'd promise, promise, to keep men safe.

He'd apologise. He would say it was a national disgrace that 68 men had died in this way. He'd say we were in crisis, that we needed to act now.

And he would act.

Laws would be reformed, punishments would become more severe, act as real deterrents. Education systems would be put in place, funding would become available immediately. It would be limitless. 

No expense would be spared. 

Imagine if 68 Australian men had been murdered so far this year. 

Imagine.

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If this has raised any issues for you, or if you just feel like you need to speak to someone, please call 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) – the national sexual assault, domestic and family violence counselling service. 

Mamamia is a charity partner of RizeUp Australia, a Queensland-based organisation that helps women and families move on after the devastation of domestic violence. If you would like to support their mission to deliver life-changing and practical support to these families when they need it most, you can donate here.

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maya a year ago 2 upvotes
It's exhausting and the same cries come out week after week as women are continually killed.  No regard for the  warnings in place and AVO orders broken. Children left devastated and the consequences for what they seen and heard to haunt their lives.  Violence against women is shown in video games, movies, TV shows so it's desensitising impressionable youths to think it's okay.  Men still think they're superior.  Our magistrates need the overhaul too - men get into court and get let off with measly sentences.

chrissyinthemiddle a year ago 6 upvotes
Law makers / government don’t seem to see it as their responsibility to provide safeguards for women. No court ordered referrals to behavioural change programs for offenders or monitoring of those who have been issued with AVO’s. No proper funding allocated to safe spaces for women. Known violent offenders are free to roam our society whose rights are prioritised at the expense of victims / future victims. There is so much that could be done yet there is unwillingness by our government to invest in what it takes to tackle this horrendous problem.