And over 27,000 parents agree.
Back in November last year, actress Zoe Saldana, 36, gave birth to twin boys, Bowie and Cy, with husband Marco Perego.
It was only recently that she stepped out on the red carpet looking AMAZING. Many people slot her into the category of: celebrity mum loses weight super quickly and easily.
But that isn't the case. Saldana has shared both her pregnancy struggles and how she worked damn hard to get her pre-baby body back...for herself.
In a Facebook post that is gaining momentum, so far over 27,000 fans have liked it, Saldana talks about the realities of dropping the pregnancy weight.
She starts,
"As you all know, we welcomed twin boys last November. Yes, by far, the most amazing experience of my life, but also a very challenging experience when it pertains to my body. I'm sure moms across the world (and dads sometimes) can identify with what I'm about to say.
Your body changes dramatically, inside and out. You grow in places you never knew you could, and you are tired beyond belief. In some cases more than others, your body experiences a kind of trauma through childbirth that is difficult to explain unless you've had that experience. My case was like that, everything from my thyroid to my platelets crashed. Thank God, we are all doing great now, but my body was really bent out of shape after the boys were born.
Bouncing back feels impossible, but I know it is important as a woman, and now a mommy, to not give up. I am determined to get my energy back and find balance for my body before these little guys start walking, and before I go back to work..... my clock is ticking!"
Saldana posted the image with her working out and continues to talk about how we should all be a little more honest and a little more supportive of mums...