Do you remember life before kids?
Do you ever think how much money you would have?
How much sleep you would be getting?… Not to forget privacy!?
I have caught myself daydreaming about living in my own apartment, on my own, just bathing and feeding and cleaning up after myself. Getting up half an hour instead of three hours before leaving for work as I only have to get myself ready and what about eating sitting down… and in silence… remember that?
I try and think back 10 years ago before I had my first child and pinpoint the critical moment where I thought starting to procreate would be an awesome idea.
It was at a family Christmas party and my husband was trying to teach his baby second cousin to roll on a rug and I remember romantically thinking awww how cute… Let’s do it! (Literally.)
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But in the last 10 years there have been moments where I am like, ‘Why didn’t I just take a damn picture instead!’
I know it is not all doom and gloom AK (After Kids).
It’s an incredibly rewarding, love-filled, awe-inspiring, life-enriching and self-confidence building venture that you can keep multiple small humans alive.
In saying that, I have had some moments where I have regretted having kids.