No idea why I clicked on this article but reading it made me so thankful for my parents teaching me the value of sex and to value myself and others highly. Self control is lost on so many these days, absolutely evidenced by schoolies and all those who think they are so entitled to engage in unrestrained depravity because they 'survived' 13 years of school. Sex has lost so much of it's meaning and the evidence is now showing that those who in engage in one night stands, tinder hook-ups etc are significantly impacting their ability to form committed, lasting relationships later on. All just for a few seconds of feeling good (or not so good) now. Most times waiting is worth it. You could sit back and have a good laugh if this was with someone who actually meant something in your life rather than another human being who simply served as a brief opportunity to satisfy your own desires. And yes, I'm a millenial.
Suzi Hands8 years ago
I was pressured into sex on a beach late one night. Not drunk and not young, we did it and I have to agree with Luca, it was sandy and not terribly nice. I saw a fisherman walk by at a distance and in my mind had a scenario of him killing the bloke I was with, raping me and then killing me. I was scarred by the whole experience.
I have also had sex on a Pool Table in my boyfriend's home and it was great. Another time with him, we had sex in a pool and that was fabulous.
BTW, these instances have happened since I turned 50. :)
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No idea why I clicked on this article but reading it made me so thankful for my parents teaching me the value of sex and to value myself and others highly. Self control is lost on so many these days, absolutely evidenced by schoolies and all those who think they are so entitled to engage in unrestrained depravity because they 'survived' 13 years of school. Sex has lost so much of it's meaning and the evidence is now showing that those who in engage in one night stands, tinder hook-ups etc are significantly impacting their ability to form committed, lasting relationships later on. All just for a few seconds of feeling good (or not so good) now. Most times waiting is worth it. You could sit back and have a good laugh if this was with someone who actually meant something in your life rather than another human being who simply served as a brief opportunity to satisfy your own desires. And yes, I'm a millenial.
I was pressured into sex on a beach late one night. Not drunk and not young, we did it and I have to agree with Luca, it was sandy and not terribly nice. I saw a fisherman walk by at a distance and in my mind had a scenario of him killing the bloke I was with, raping me and then killing me. I was scarred by the whole experience.
I have also had sex on a Pool Table in my boyfriend's home and it was great. Another time with him, we had sex in a pool and that was fabulous.
BTW, these instances have happened since I turned 50. :)