You probably heard of the American “vegan” mum earlier this week. Elizabeth Hawk, 33, was arrested for allegedly feeding her 11-month-old son nothing but nuts and berries causing him to become seriously malnourished, so malnourished it was affecting his development.
The little boy had to be removed and placed into his father’s care (but according to reports is doing much better).
If there is just one lesson that we can take away from this story, it’s that new mums need more support in how best to care for their bub after those early sleepless weeks.
I’m a vegan mum (although, for the record, I don’t agree that Hawk’s diet, or the one she fed her baby, is vegan due to the strict limitations – but that’s a conversation for another time).
Before I even fell pregnant, I promised my husband (a non-vegan) that our future children could eat whatever they wanted including steak, Big Macs and sausage rolls. When my bub was about to cross the threshold of starting solids, I spent countless hours on the internet reading articles for and against giving babies a vegan diet.
I found nothing that convinced me that vegan-only was okay. Sure, there were articles sponsored by vegan groups claiming that vegan-only was perfectly nutritional, but what I wanted was an anti-vegan medical practitioner who had done conclusive research which found that a vegan diet was suitable for a growing baby. I want to acknowledge that I know there are a lot of cultures where babies eat vegan diets and grow up perfectly healthy, and I'm not saying babies shouldn't eat vegan diets. Personally, I just wanted a little bit more science to back up my decision.
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You sound like a thoughtful, intelligent mum who wants what is best for her child, with plenty of time to streamline diet later. Nothing wrong with limiting meat and even eating a lot of animal product-free food at all, but a strictly limited, entirely calcium-free diet with zero protein is child abuse. The mother who did this requires her children to be removed and to be prevented from having any more. No sympathy for her at all. I am certain - though I don't at all think much of veganism in principle - that many vegan and vegetarian parents have well-nourished children via whatever means. The lady mentioned is mentally ill and a child abuser, nothing more.
You can't seriously think that her diet, and the one she imposed on her child, were a result of her thinking she was doing the best thing for her child or from a lack of support. Honestly, you don't have to be a rocket scientist to know that a kid needs a varied diet! This isn't a mum who is stressed because her child won't touch veges/meat/fruit etc, or a mum who didn't have the best examples of healthy eating growing up so isn't quite sure how to make varied, nutritious meals - this is a mum who limited her bubs food to two food groups. Her family acknowledged that her diet was crazy - meaning that she probably had a non-crazy diet to compare it to, and she was probably told. Also, given that she had been refusing to use a cream prescribed by a dr on her child's skin condition, the word of a doctor probably wouldn't have helped.
Yes, mum's need support with how to feed their children and how to prepare healthy food and portion sizes etc - but that was not what this story was about at all. Write an article about the actual issue, don't tack it onto a woman who endangered her child by deliberately restricting the child's diet.