By ROSIE WATERLAND
You have two chances to fall in love. Two.
Of all the fish in the entire sea, only two will make your heart feel zip zap tingly times. After that, the sea rejects you and you’re done. Get yourself a cat and a favourite TV show.
So how do I know this (obviously) completely legitimate fact is true? Because it was in a ‘study’, my friends. A study conducted at a three day festival, no less.
Apparently it was determined that we each fall in love an average of twice in our lifetimes, and 46% of people would be willing to leave their current partner if they met the love of their life.
Hmmm… I know what you’re thinking. A ‘festival’ study, Rosie? Really? I know. But I have this problem where I believe everything ‘studies’ tell me. As soon as someone puts percentages in a sentence, my mind is so dazzled that I take it as fact. For example:
Random person: “Hey Rosie, did you hear about that study that says 65% of people with blonde hair are also psychopaths?”
Rosie: “65%?!? Well that must be true because SCIENCE.”
See? Regardless of whether a study is legitimate or not, it sucks me in.
So back to this ‘two chances for love’ thing. Basically, I’m screwed.
I’ve been in love once in my life. So according to this study that I’ve now decided is the definitive word on all things love-related, that leaves me with one more chance to lock this thing down.
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I'm already married to my soulmate, but here is my list for any future soulmates, should this one not work out. ;)
1. Don't tell me I can't do something. If you do, you will hear "you are not my dad", as I go and do just what you said no to.
2. I reserve the right to take over cooking if you are taking too long, not doing it right, or... Actually, just let me cook, I'm better at it.
3. I love to sing, a lot. And to me, I sound great. Best get used to it and feel free to make it a duet.
4. I will absolutely not wax or shave all my pubic hair. Waxing hurts and shaving rash is hideous. I will do maintenance (this does get slack in Winter FYI), but in return, I don't care if you are hairy
5. I really love champagne, a lot! Not for every day, but definitely for every celebration. Verve Cliquot is my favourite, I prefer this to flowers.
I will love you, be loyal and never, ever cheat on you. But I may fart in bed, sorry in advance.
Better hang on to my husband!
I can relate.
1) I prefer to sleep and live alone. You could be the most amazingly perfect partner in the world, I still will always prefer this. I will make compromises to aid closeness, but that's my preference. My hope is to meet someone of the same ilk. In a long-term situation I will hope for separate houses but will *insist* on separate bedrooms. With lots of cross-bedroom visits of course. ;)
2) I prefer waking up with my cat to waking up with another person.
3) When I am falling for someone, I find the times alone listening to music and thinking about them to be as crucial to the process as being in their presence. You need time to miss the person.
4) I loathe people who de-prioritise their friends when they hook up with someone. I will not do this, ever.
5) I am nerdy about my interests and will bang on about them given half the chance.
Having said all that, I also think it's important to help one's partner feel important and cared-for, and am committed to doing that as well. Some would find my approach off-putting or mistake my introversion for emotional distance, but it isn't at all. Come at me, dream woman! :)