Meet Sonja.
“I’m a trans woman, who worked out that she needed to stop repressing her gender identity and live as a woman about two and a half years ago,” she told Mamamia.
“I have clearly identified, internally, as feminine of centre, and as ‘she’, since somewhere about eight years of age.
“I’ve always been desperately uncomfortable with the expectations and roles cast for me in society, based on my anatomy, and it’s resulted in a life long struggle.”
According to Sonja, there is a mismatch between the way she feels, in terms of her gender, and what her body is like.
Despite living as a woman and undergoing hormone treatment, she says she is still not entirely comfortable with the way she looks and is often misgendered.
“It’s really disconcerting when that happens, and sometimes quite traumatic,” she says.
“It reminds me of where I was, and how unhappy I was, and I feel like I’ve lost progress.”
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At the beginning of this year, Sonja requested to have gender affirmation surgery at a clinic in Thailand, which she underwent successfully earlier this month.
In order to get there though, she had to fly- and to fly, she needed a passport.
“The situation with official documentation [such as a passport] induces just as much dysphoria,” Sonja explains. “When I’m categorised as ‘male’, by a government department or institution, I feel depressed and and silenced.”
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She is gorgeous and so resilient. Good on you babe xo