Remember ‘Tiger Mom?’ Amy Chua?
If you aren’t familiar with her first book ‘Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother’ and her proclamation that Chinese mothers are superior and therefore, breed superior children, you can read about it here.
Obviously, Chua made waves with her first and bestselling book, so it’s not surprising she’s back with a brand new set of rules, and this time she straying into even more controversial territory. One where no one is safe.
According to Chua and her husband, Jed Reubenfeld, who co-authored the new book ‘The Triple Package” there are three reasons why 8 particular groups reign supreme over everyone else in America. The three reasons being: Superiority Complexes, Insecurity and Impulse control.
Should you not belong to any of the following groups, you are, according to the authors, simply contributing to the downfall of America. Not surprisingly, Chua and Reubenfeld belong to two of the groups they deem to be exceptional. In no particular order, the groups are:
- Jewish
- Indian
- Chinese
- Iranian
- Lebanese-Americans
- Nigerians
- Cuban exiles
- Mormons
What though, does the ‘Triple Package’ entail. What are, according to the authors, the distinguishing factors that make these eight groups the most superior in America: (From New York Post)
1. A superiority complex
“Any group that collectively believes they are inherently better than any other, say the authors, has an advantage. They do note that this is perhaps humanity’s oldest and ugliest flaw, the bottom-line cause of wars and genocide. In their estimation, it’s not nearly common enough in America, where “the Superiority Complex . . . is antithetical to mainstream liberal thinking . . . the stuff of racism, colonialism, imperialism, Nazism.”
This way of thinking, they write, has been a big boon to Mormons and Jews, though they also fail to note that believing in the superiority of a belief system is the driving force behind almost all organized religion. (Except the Amish. The authors freely note that the Amish are losers for this very reason.)
Top Comments
I am Australian born but my background is Indian and am disgusted at the Tiger Mom list. Indian parenting techniques it seems has some similarities to the Chinese approach, from what Tiger Mom explains. Fortunately, upon migration, my parents were highly influenced and impressed by the Australian culture. So while academic performance was considered a priority for my brother and I so were concepts like social justice, charity, empathy and relaxation time. I am so glad to have positive influences from both the Eastern and Western worlds.
Tiger Mom is actually doing a disservice to the Chinese culture by portraying it as a racist, competitive and arrogant through her writings. I feel sorry for her children who will growing think that they have to win at everything their whole lives. It is exhausting and ultimately futile.
I have three kids. All happy working good citizens with a social conscience. TWo were school captain and one was vive captain. Between them they have 4 BA degrees with honours, a grad dip, an MA and a PHD. They all have life long friends and good memories of childhood. They have no relationship issues and two and a half happy children. They all play a musical instruments or two for pleasure. None need a Psch although one IS one. They were all raised by laid back white Aussie parents. They probably would have achieved more with Tiger Mum as mother but who cares.