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Do children have an inner knowing or a spiritual side?
They don’t seem to. In fact, life with a small kid seems intensely practical and earthly bound. Yet my child has often made me wonder.
My daughter was conceived in India where a friend joked that she would be a reincarnated soul. She was born in Australia where I settled back into being the cynical skeptic. All that remained of my flirtation with spiritualism and religion (apart from my book Holy Cow available still at only $22 from your nearest bookshop) was a comic about Krishna and a Buddha head statue in my garden.
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Is this the direction Mamamia is taking now? Promoting unscientific, religious gibberish? First it was the "I knew my son would die (one day, maybe, sometime in his life)" and now this "I'm pretty sure that's what I heard her say" nonsense.
This promotion of religion and pseudoscience as useful tools of discovery can only lead to the dark side - opposition to homosexuality, oppression of women, pineapple cancer cures, anti-vaccinanation... Is that what you want?
There's no need to look outside of reality for answers, and no benefit.
People kept saying our son was an 'old soul' from birth but I don't believe in this kind of stuff. I do believe there is some level of intuition with him and he does see people. Last year I was pregnant, about 9 weeks. On the Sunday before our first appointment at nap time he told me I had to tuck all the toys into bed lined up next to him, he then said that the 'man' needed to be tucked in too. I asked what man and he stared intently at the book case saying 'that man' I just told him he didn't need to be tucked in, was ok and off he went to sleep. This repeated at night. The next day I asked him about the man, he said he was gone, I asked his name and he told me he didn't have one. At our appointment on Wednesday I found out there was no heartbeat and the baby died.
In hindsight, I suspect the baby died on the sunday. I lost my nausea, my baby told me about the man, and there were three crows hanging around (I remember thinking my mum would hate them if she was there) and I am told that crows are relatives looking over you.
Very bizarre having your two year old tell you about this man...who knows, maybe it is an imaginary friend who hasn't come back and we read far to much into this stuff.