This post deals with domestic violence and may be distressing for some readers.
At 17 years old, Kyesha Finemore’s ex-boyfriend doused her in petrol and set her alight.
The cruel attack left Kyesha with serious burns to 21 per cent of her body – including her arms, legs and upper body.
The Brisbane girl’s injuries were so severe, she had to be placed into an induced coma for 24 hours and undergo three skingrafts.
For months, Kyesha and her boyfriend Brae Lewis, also 17, had multiple violent fights – including a previous failed attempt to light Kyesha on fire.
Now, after two years of recovering from the trauma, Kyesha has sat down with The Sunday Project, for an interview which left presenter Lisa Wilkinson visibly shaken.
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11 years? Why wasn't this attempted murder. Now this creep will be out in 11 years after attempting to kill a person. Nice.
The most disturbing sentence this woman uttered was "It hurt, it really, really hurt because he couldn't even wait around for the ambulance to get there." This speaks volumes about her mindset. Rather than feeling outraged over the fact that he set her on fire, she's hanging onto the dismay she felt when it became obvious that he didn't care. As though the perpetrators of such acts can still be considered 'good blokes' as long as they stick around afterwards to 'care' for their victims. Be mad that he did such a thing to you in the first place, not that he didn't hold your hand and console you afterwards. I sincerely hope she has good people around her now that can un-do that way of thinking.
No actually that statement shows just how damaging an abusive relationship can be on a person. Especially at such a young age. Her "mindset" is of someone who has been attacked by someone that was supposed to love her and feeling shocked by the damage they were able to do. Saying anything else is blaming her. Period.
Kiki, you are correct in pointing out that it is a byproduct of an abusive relationship, which was my my point exactly. I in no way meant to victim shame and instead was concerned by the damage still needing to be undone. No one deserves what happened to her. My outrage was directed at the perpetrator and how much he had warped her way of thinking - my apologies if that failed to come across.