Taryn Brumfitt is a body positivity activist, writer, documentary filmmaker and the founder of a body image movement.
So why then, in so many interviews, is she first referred to as a mum-of-three?
That’s not to say she’s not a mum – she is. The Adelaide woman has three kids: Oliver, Cruz and Mikaela.
It’s just “fascinating” to Brumfitt that in so many of the news stories written about her and the TV segments featuring her comments since a before-and-after photo thrust her into the public sphere in 2013, she’s been first (and sometimes solely) referred to as a “mum-of-three”.
Taryn Brumfitt tells Mia Freedman about the photo that broke the internet. Post continues.
She’s fascinated because she has noticed it never happens to her male counterparts. Damon Gameau is introduced as an actor and star and director of That Sugar Film, not father-of-one. And who even knows if David Bradbury has kids (or a wife or a personal life) four decades into his documentary filmmaking career.
And it’s not to say that having kids and a family isn’t a huge part of Taryn’s life. It’s just, in the context of her career, her role as a mother isn’t that relevant. And it certainly shouldn’t be the sole marker of her identity, just like fatherhood isn’t for the vast majority of men.
Taryn told Mamamia’s Lady Startup host Rachel Corbett about how the issue reared its head again on a recent trip to Germany, where her film Embrace was seen by more than 52,000 people.
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I haven't seen the film, though I have seen the promotional material and trailer. I feel that the "mum of three" tag is directly relevant to the message that the film and movement is about -- body image, empowerment and the female body experience. Part of the story is how her family is woven into this change of approach that she is championing, and how having children and a family has impacted both her body and how she thinks about it. I think the mum of three label doesn't degrade her credentials -- it is part of her credentials about why she's qualified to lead a movement like this.
If you're going to have a go at other media outlets for not reaching certain standards, you should really make sure you're reaching those standards yourself. Like, for example, the fact that you referred to Kylie Jenner as a "mum of one" (and gave no further context as to who she is) in your Wednesday celebrity news, which was published on the very same day as this article.
To be fair, producing that baby is probably the only thing of merit and worth that Kylie Jenner has ever achieved to date.
Careful, that kind of talk gets your account flagged ;)