A man has been found not guilty of sexually assaulting a teenage girl — because she looked older than her years at the time they had sex.
Trigger warning: This post deals with child sexual assault and may be triggering for some readers.
A man who had sex with a 13-year-old has been acquitted of child rape by a Swedish court because his victim was “well developed”.
The girl had run away from foster care, and met her perpetrator in a playground, explaining to him she had no money or food.
The man invited her to his home, where she accepted his invitation for a drink, Daily Beast reports.
The pair had sex — a fact the man denied to authorities, until DNA evidence confirmed his semen was found in her underwear.
When the man was found not guilty, the teenager lodged an appeal. But it was thrown out of court this week after the courtroom was shown footage of the girl’s police interview — which led the court to decide apparently, that the man “could not have known” how old she was due to her developed figure.
The ruling has drawn international criticism to Sweden’s soft laws on sex with minors. According to The Daily Beast, Sweden requires a defendant must “know” or have “reasonable grounds to believe” the victim is under 15 years old — the nation’s age of consent.
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Sadly, a ruling on these grounds is not isolated, with judges all over the world acquitting rapists due to the victim looking beyond their years.
The Daily Beast notes a case in London this year, where a judge accused a 16-year-old girl of “grooming” her 44-year-old teacher, and a Montana trial where a 47-year-old teacher was let off because his 14-year-old victim looked older than her chronological age.
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Sweeden has no justice system
So are people seriously suggesting every time one has sex with someone they don't really know they should ask to check their ID? An entire court decided that due to this girls appearance, one could not have known that she was under the legal age of 15. This wasn't some creepy 55 year old man, This man was 27. And if this girl truly did look this mature for her age, he could have picked her as being 18, maybe even 20. Does every one here genuinely check everyone they see or sleep with for ID?
Even if his behaviour was kind of suss, or, as some claim, seems "predatory"- something having a general predatory vibe is not a crime. I also seriously think this article is making a bit of a stretch by calling her a "child". 13 years old= teenager.
By law, a 13yr old is still a child. And yes, if you don't know a person then ask how old they are. Talk to them before you sleep with them - this should give you an insight into their maturity level. And another way to solve this problem is stop sleeping with people you don't know. Have a relationship with someone, and you won't have this problem.
It astounds me how many people are willing to have sex with a stranger, without getting to know them at least a little bit first.
13 IS a child. To suggest anything is bizarre ! Remeber there are some students who are 13 in year 6. Any adult should think more than twice if they even vaguely think that someone could be under-aged, just like buying cigarettes or alcohol !
I thought about this myself ... my 15 year old niece is a woman in her body, manners, attitude and the way she carries herself. Even friends of the family are shocked that she's only turned 15 recently. She has been 6ft, generous bosom, gorgeous curvy figure since 13.
It's been a constant worry for my sister, and myself that some men would automatically think she's older than she is.
In saying that ... I find it suss that a man of any age (above mid-20s) finds a teenager attractive ... it's got to be a sex thing, not an intellectual thing. What's wrong with him that he can't find someone older, who is actually "of age".
I dunno, I agree in a sense, but on the other hand, you could say the same of guys who generally go for dumb girls, regardless of age, or the opposite, of a guy who goes for a particularly grounded and intelligent teen
I do think it's suss for someone to date someone so much younger than them. I find it suss when 30 year olds date 17 year olds. but thats legal. unfortunately sometimes suss doesnt equate to illegal.