At 17 weeks pregnant Brittneyrose Torres is in a legal battle to save the life of one of the babies she is carrying. The young mother from the US is acting as a paid surrogate for a couple who can’t have kids of their own.
The New York Post reports that Torres was implanted with two fertilized eggs, one of which split in two forming into male twins and a third female fetus.
She said that the parents were excited at first about having three babies. But around week 12, they began to change their mind and told Torres that an increased risk of developmental disabilities made aborting the girl necessary.
Torres told The New York Post that her clients “knew from the beginning that we wouldn’t want to abort unless it was a life-and-death situation. We would never want to abort a baby’s life.”
Torres, who already has her own child, said she checked with the doctors and there were no abnormalities with the triplets.
She said, “I told [the biological mother] I couldn’t abort one of the children. I could not emotionally and physically do that at nearly 13 weeks. I believe it will be killing this baby.”
Under her contract with the biological parents, Torres is to receive at least $30,000 — $25,000 for carrying one baby and $5,000 extra for carrying two or more.
Some of her stipend has been cut for refusing the abortion, which the parents claim they have a right to demand due to a provision in their contract with the surrogate.
Torres told The New York Post she offered to adopt the female fetus instead of aborting her, but the couple refused.
Jennifer Lahl from the Center for Bioethics and Culture (CBC), a nonprofit anti-surrogacy organization told Yahoo:
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For surrogate mother it is usually very hard to leave the baby. I have seen some surrogate mothers that were crying leaving babies. But it is like natural human reaction. During the nine month there was contact between gestational carrier and baby.
It is really strong connection with a baby bearing it. But I don’t think that it would cause significant damage for birth mother and child. Surrogate mother should be prepared to leave. Surrogate mothers must have physiological consultations and support. I’ve mentioned it because our surrogate mother had it. And of course there should be strong reasons to become surrogate mothers.
As we are talking about gestational surrogacy not traditional. The birth mother is not connected biologically the child. From this point of view it is more justified that traditional surrogacy. And I think traditional surrogacy isn’t used any more if I am not mistaken. And concerning the children I think it is not obligatory to tell them the truth. I understand that it would be hard to
conceal it. However, here we need to choose. We need to be very careful with their psycho. It is very fragile. Once hurt, it is very difficult to restore it. We are not obliged to tell all the details of birth and bearing to our child. Maybe in some cases adoption can be alternative. But it is not always a way out. There are a lot of problems appearing with the adoption. I have nothing against it but it is really very difficult. But this process can take several years. Meanwhile it is pleasure to raise a baby since the birth. And that child will not be genetically connected neither my husband nor me. Surrogate mother and donor should be different. Maybe the legislation concerning the surrogacy can vary. But when I was treated in Ukraine.there was special legislation. That legislation did not permit surrogate mother to be a donor. Also one parent had to be genetically connected to a child. And there should be strong medical indications for surrogacy such as infertility or age. So these positions seem to be honest.
I wonder how many people view their surrogate as a human being? Surrogates are not just a gestational carrier, but an individual, who 'at the end of the day' could be risking her health both physically and medically to give someone else a baby. Commercial surrogacy is the ultimate form of female exploitation (in my humble opinion)