'I was best friends with my step mum. When we both got pregnant everything changed.'

There's a heart-wrenching tale of a family torn apart unfolding on reddit. A woman named Annabelle* recently shared her story, detailing a complex relationship with her father and his new wife that has seen her effectively banished from the family. 

The post, which quickly gained traction on the popular social media platform, reveals a decade-long struggle that has left Annabelle questioning whether reconciliation is possible or even desirable.

Annabelle's story begins when her father remarried while she was 21 years old. Initially, the relationship between Annabelle and her new stepmother seemed promising, and they became close friends. 

Soon enough, Annabelle became pregnant at the same time as her step-mother was expecting her first child with her father. It is an unusual circumstance, but the two women bonded over their simultaneous pregnancies. 

Their happy bubble was burst when tragedy struck. Annabelle's stepmother suffered a miscarriage, while Annabelle's pregnancy continued successfully. This event marked a turning point in their relationship, as Annabelle later discovered that her stepmother harboured resentment towards her for having a healthy baby.

The situation deteriorated rapidly, with Annabelle's stepmother imposing strict boundaries that effectively isolated Annabelle and her children from the rest of the family. Despite Annabelle's attempts to maintain a cordial relationship for the sake of family harmony, her efforts were met with hostility and rejection. 

"My dad was not allowed to bring my brother to my house. She cussed me out for even posting his picture on my [facebook]," she shared. 

"My grandma asked me to let it go, so I tried for years to be nice. She doesn't speak to my grandparents and my sister was iced out after she turned 18."

The emotional toll of this family divide became increasingly apparent as Annabelle described the disparate treatment between her children and those of her stepbrother. 

While her father and stepmother doted on her stepbrother's children, Annabelle's own offspring were consistently excluded from family gatherings and celebrations. 

"They are excellent grandparents to my brother's kids, but my kids, who are a few blocks away, are never invited for sleepovers or anything... He barely comes to my kids birthday parties." 

This blatant favouritism has left Annabelle grappling with feelings of hurt and confusion, particularly given her previously close relationship with her father.

Attempts at reconciliation have proven futile, with family gatherings devolving into heated arguments and further estrangement. 

"We tried to be nice last 4th of July & went to my dad's house but she wouldn't allow my sister into their house to wash her hands and it quickly became a screaming match," she said.

The recent passing of Annabelle's grandmother has brought these long-simmering tensions to the forefront, leaving Annabelle at a crossroads. She finds herself torn between the desire to confront her father and stepmother about years of mistreatment and the hope of preserving what remains of their relationship for the sake of her children.

"Spending time with him preparing for the funeral, and for the sake of my kids I thought about just leaving it in the past," she says. "I just don't understand why he let this happen. My kids shouldn't be punished simply because they are mine. I've done nothing wrong."

Annabelle's post struck to the heart of the complexities of blended families and the lasting impact of unresolved conflicts. 

Well wishers rushed to the comments to offer her support and remind her that her dad isn't innocent in all of this. 

"Your dad might have been great to you growing up, but that doesn't take away from the fact that he let you be hurt in exchange for peace in his marriage," one commented. 

"I can't imagine how anyone with even half a brain could see you as the bad guy in this situation," another added. 

The only update Annabelle has given is that the feud very much remains in tact. 

"I went to his house today because a lot of my family was there, and even her parents won't speak to me.

"Her dad is the pastor of the church. It's just insane. Who knows what she had told them about me."

*Names have been changed.

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