Last Friday, on the 25th of October, I was going out to dinner in the city with my friends. After finally completing my midterm exams, and then being surrounded by a jubilant crowd in a climate protest, I was feeling empowered.
The crowd’s repeated cries that “change is coming” sounded like a unique and powerful melody, one that bubbles up inside you and fills you with something special and hard to find – hope. I left that protest feeling full of laughter and jubilation, with a sense of quiet confidence that things aren’t so bad after all.
It took all but two seconds for the bouncer of Paragon Hotel to crush that feeling of empowerment into dust. It took him two seconds to make me feel small. It took him two seconds to ignore my ID, point to my hijab, and say “take it off.” And it took me longer to realise what had just happened.
Being told to take my hijab off was shocking. It was surreal. It took a moment for me to even process that someone had just discriminated against me for a religious garment that I am fully entitled to wear. And despite the fact that I didn’t see it coming at all – is it really that surprising?
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Absolutely disgusting and I’m sorry you went through this. Fortunately not everyone Is so racially prejudiced. He thought it was just a headscarf? Does that make it better? No. Imagine if he asked a cancer patient to take their headscarf off. Outrageous on both fronts and not acceptable. I hope although doubt it was his first and last shift there and has learnt something from it. No excuse to say “checking id’s” when he didn’t even ask to see it In the first place.
I was reading this and got to the bit where examples of Islamophobia were provides. The final one, about the Muslim man detained without evidence; my first thought was yeah ok, I can understand how/why that happened. But then I checked myself, because we know that wasn’t an isolated incident, that it wasn’t the first time he’s been tested differently because of his religion/ethnicity. (In the same way that as women, being grabbed or cat called by itself mightn’t be ‘that bad’, but it’s part of a lifetime of being treated like that). I also doubt it’s the first tome the people who made that mistake, made those assumptions about a Muslim person, or a person of a different ethnicity/cultural background.
As for Soaliha Iqbal, this much be such a difficult thing for her. It’s a catch 22 isn’t it, calling it out is going to make her a target, make it even worse for her. But it won’t change if it stays in the shadows, if we aren’t forced to own up to our behaviour. It’s a very brave move.