By: D. A. Wolf for Divorced Moms.
Are you searching for signs that your spouse is cheating?
The days of lipstick on the collar may be passed, though that doesn’t mean you won’t catch a smudge of gloss, a whiff of Chanel, or find a ticket stub in a pants pocket that leads you to wonder. But chances are – what tips you off to infidelity is a technology trail or a behavioural one, and possibly a little bit of both.
Here’s an updated list of clues your spouse or partner is straying. It combines the best of the “classic” signs along with those afforded by our digital devices.
1. Change in behaviour.
Have the usual routines shifted? Do you notice he’s not playing tennis when he used to – or walking the dog or biking with the kids? Is he staying late at the office, sitting up at night in the kitchen, or ignoring regular commitments he’s always responded to?
There may be an excellent reason other than another person in the picture, but marked changes in routine are among the signs that your partner is sneaking around.
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2. Sudden unavailability.
Beyond late nights at the office or on his computer, if your spouse is unavailable and no one seems to know where he is, you might want to raise an eyebrow. Sure, he could be planning your big birthday bash in Hawaii or Tahiti, but I wouldn’t count on it. And if you check with his friends and colleagues and note a hint of hesitation as they say he isn’t with them? More reason for your antennae to perk up.
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