We’ve been sold a (phallic) fallacy, you guys.
Shower sex is never as sexy or glamorous as it looks in the movies – or in porn. (Sorry, it was NSFW for me to provide you with examples.)
It’s something Samantha X, former escort and Mamamia’s sex expert on the Sealed Section podcast, feels very strongly about.
“The one thing I never ever did was have showers with people,” she said on this week’s episode.
“One person always gets cold. I never wanted to get my hair wet. I hate doing it.”
Samantha X talks about why shower sex is the worst. Post continues after…
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Samantha X is not the only woman to express these concerns. It’s a universally acknowledged fact that no matter how horny, or new to a relationship you are, or drunk… sex in the shower is usually the absolute worst.
Here’s some other reasons why:
- You will fight about water temperature.
- Someone will get water up their nose and/or gag.
- No matter how wet water is, it is not a lubricant.
- Wet friction is painful.
- Most people don’t feel their sexiest when they look like a drowned rat: so catching a glimpse of yourself in the mirror can be an instant buzzkill.
- Fluorescent lighting.
- Height difference between the two (or more) of you becomes genuinely problematic.
- Doing anything on your knees is not uncomfortable – it’s torture. Which makes oral sex challenging because tiled surfaces are unforgiving.
- At some point, you will notice too much about the shower. Hair in the drain. Mould on the shower head. Creating a domestic to do list isn’t conducive to sexy thoughts.
- Slippery surfaces mean there’s nothing to hang on to, and slipping over in a distinctly un-sexy move is a clear and present danger.
- Soaps and suds sting: in eyes, and other places…and they taste crap, too.
- You are wasting water. Suddenly, you will remember all the times you have yelled at other family members to keep things short, and think of the utility and bill…and look-y what we have here: an H2O Hypocrite.
- The hot water will run out: if you last that long.
- You discover the hard way that your favourite sex toy that promised it was waterproof is, in fact, not.