@millie1986 I think it’s commendable to share the experience of post-adoption depression (or any of the challenges associated with adoption and family integration - it’s a very interesting topic!)

This is galling.  This woman is committed to victimising herself and unable/unwilling to hear what people are telling her. Jonica, you are putting your child (that you claim to love and care for) at risk - physically and emotionally. You are prioritising money and your ego over your children.  Mamamia needs to stop platforming information that identifies children in this way.

@cicchis0  actually, there’s all kinds of inconsistencies and oddities weight and obesity data.  Modern science is so set on the conclusion that fat = bad and thin = good that they’ve deemed the well known fact that kinda fat people live longer “The Obesity Paradox.”  It’s not a paradox - we just don’t know as much as we pretend we do.   There’s a great podcast called Maintenance Phase that really analyses the research behind “common knowledge” and I’ve found it really insightful.