No one unless they've been through it understands the impact of being stalked. People told me to just ignore it! How could I?! This insane delusional loser woman destroyed my life! She was so incredibly dangerous, an ex cop with major connections. She even had me arrested by her dirty corrupt cop mates. I laughed when the police turned up and asked me about the stolen ID I had.... weeks later I found a strangers drivers licence in my writing pad which she had placed there! She had me committed to a mental ward, again thanks to her corrupt cop mates. And she did much worse. We have to stop telling people to ignore stalkers and stand up for them, support them. These people are so destructive and dangerous they ruin lives. Police have to start taking these matters far more seriously. The police wouldn't help me because she wasnt' sending me messages she was contacting my friends, colleagues, clients. I lost all my clients and most my colleagues as a result. I even changed my surname multiple times and set up new business and she found me and did it all over again. This was some years ago but even today I have to be incredibly careful, I have to look over my shoulder all the time. I can not promote myself, my business or my services because of her and this has a major impact. I'll never be safe until the evil bitch dies but the immense damage has been done and I lost so much. Thanks Nicole for your book, which I'm in, and your continued writing on this subject it's really important. Louise
It is absolutely not normal to be so exhausted she has to be in bed for a week. She is either severely depressed or have a serious illness. This sounds like an extremely abusive relationship. He speaks for her, he cuts her off when she's speaking, she speaks softly so he can't here her talk about the one epidural she had (when he wasn't present for the birth). Alarm bells should be ringing very very loud.