Girls, please, stop being ashamed by a simple question about the body count. If it is a red flag for you in case a guy asks then leave him. For me not answering this question is also the red flag. Just be honest. I already filed for divorce once because my ex wife lied. It ruined me emotionally, neurotically. We'd lived for 4 years and I couldn't be capable of handling the lie. It was and is  over me