@chrissyinthemiddle women like me might be a challenge for the matchmakers out there who want a quick match fir the maximum money, but thinking that all successful, strong men want a soft or submissive partner is a mistake. She obviously does not realise success and bravado does not  equal strength. Truly strong and successful men are not threatened by a strong, successful woman. My partner is every bit my match and adores and loves my strength.  He is secure enough in himself to not need nor want someone less than him in the relationship, and is intelligent enough to know that a successful, strong and intelligent couple are much more successful together, in work, play and family life.