@Let us talk together This man never once talked about how this would affect his wife or his kids and he never once thought about saving his marriage. This man is selfish and doesn't truly care about other human beings.
You never said once that you loved your children or the effect your actions had on your wife. If you have time to cheat for an entire day then you have time to find counseling because without it you are a heartless person with no sense of responsibility who needs to change.