Wow.. when I think I'm having a hard day with the kids I will check myself and think of this story! What an amazingly strong woman you must be and I'm so glad Henry is doing well now. All the best to your family x
My sister was married to an older guy who was very controlling, emotional and verbally abusive. She developed a stutter when he was present and stomach pains after a fight (later diagnosed as an ulcer). Unsurprisingly, she walked away from the marriage leaving both ailments behind!