At the time this happened I'm not sure why she would have the right to be angry as she was out on other dates. Perspective is real and giving this a new narrative ok. You are not a terrible person it happened. 

Omg they are evil unkind nasty mean people be glad they are not in your life. 

You actually said it yourself I know how much love and effort went into it and she’s amazing why hurt her just use them for heavy baby  jackets or something. Sometimes just let it go us oldies don’t always get it right but a lot of us our doing the best we can because we dimly love you and your little family. Xx

Exactly me - married thirty years stopped fighting last two… fought begged and cried for us to resolve, fix, discuss and acknowledge there was an issue. No connection no intimacy nothing in common we existed in two seperate rooms and you where shocked to the core last January when I moved out the first week and swear I’d never to another year lonely with him again. 

My my you took the blame for something that is a two way street.  Friendship is about people being there for each other, having boundaries and understanding we all have different expectations. This friend did you a favour and showed you who she really is. As we get older our priorities change it appears some can’t handle when others make choices, have differing priorities and that immediate family comes first meaning friendships change over the years. 

You are definitely lucky he left what an asshole and typical avoidant and selfish person who left when u where going through something so scary and traumatic.  He does not deserve u. A lot of men are happy for us to be present but don’t see our true value.  I pray you become well and stronger than he will ever know.  

I am a grandmother and have brought my adult children up to be adults also. There is a time we have to step back and respect they are now there own boss, can make there own mistakes and decisions and I praise then for all efforts in every way. They now know I respect and listen so they give me the same respect and they seek advice and we have discussions about things we can do to support them me and be consistent with our grandchildren. 

That is the lowest act anyone can do to another person. That woman should be in custody if she can do that to u and other people at. Wedding what is she going to others after. Absolute lowlife of a human being !!!