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k8te612 June 2, 2024

My partner and I of nearly 2 years were rocky 2 weeks prior to us breaking up. I had tried to bring up and talk to him about some things which he couldn’t really handle, saying to me “I don’t know what to say” and trying to brush it off. But happy to bring up my flaws from 6 months ago or things I had said recently that he didn’t like. He had become distant and not sleeping but couldn’t tell me why.

Our relationship was long distance. One morning he text me asking to have a ‘chat’ about us in the arvo, I wasn’t leaving it til then and called him straight away.

We had a heated discussion, with him also telling me had settled with his ex-wife a week ago. That was the last straw.

I had supported him for 18 months with this and he couldn’t even tell me it was all finalised.

I went to his house the next day while he wasn’t home and cleared out my belongings. Sent him a lovely text saying why I couldn’t be with him- his response- “I don’t know what to say” and didn’t even bother to call to talk about it.

One month later after our break up, I find out on FB he’s seeing someone else and has introduced his kids to her. Tells me he wasn’t talking to or seeing anyone while we were together, but it doesn’t add up to me. Apparantley did the same with his ex-wife, left her and was dating 2 weeks later (NOT with me).

Note to self- ask more questions, no matter how much you like them, and don’t be scared of what the answer could be.

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