After 11 years of my mother in-laws snide rude and nasty comments I cut contact with her and it’s been the best damn thing I have done. She’s an absolute witch with issues in her own life that she refuses to address to picks at me instead because she’s too afraid to look at her own flaws. I’m human and don’t get everything right.  But my mother inlaw seems to think she’s in control of everything from deciding it’s her place to question me on my parenting to bad mouthing me to anyone that will listen.  Mother in-laws should go make them selves Some friends and find something else to fill their time with. Seriously the big nosey nose is not wanted in a marriage. It was like having 3 in a bed. But I would have welcomed an actual affair far greater than his mother being apart of our “love triangle”