Thank you Tiffany for sharing your experience of living with ME/CFS. Thousands of Aussies silently suffer from this debilitating multisystem illness (it is so much more than fatigue). We really appreciate your openness about how hard it is on relationships. When we married, I was an active, outdoorsy, independent woman. Now my husband is my carer. This is not what either of us signed up for. Like you, my conditioned worsened after having babies. Raising young children while suffering from ME/CFS was really hard work. I would love to have the chance to do it all over again but in a state of normal health.