Have you tried contacting headspace? I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're doing an incredible job with him. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. 

@gu3st This is exactly my opinion. Thank you for articulating it so perfectly. 

I'm in the same position. I'm not being abused so I can't justify breaking the family apart. I also can't afford to leave and I'll never be able to work full time as I have an ASD2 child who requires appointments. That was well as my sons appointments and activities, who else is going to do that. And cook. And clean.. 

My dad called me "Barrel Ass"