There is actually evidence that SSRIs can affect babies' breathing at birth - sonething to be aware of.
Rosiecat, sometimes a parent can be just too toxic or frightening or neglectful to force a relationship with. I have zero regrets about cutting my abusive and violent mother loose 35 years ago. I saved my own children and grandchildren a lot of pain and mental health issues and I didn't shed a tear when she died. Even if the issues seem "minor", a build-up of broken promises, put-downs, selfishness and neglect can ultimately kill off any filial love. Anyone who calls him/herself a parent has certain obligations to their children. They don't get to have a teary reconciliation on their deathbed just because they have a biological connection.