@sunnymitchell63 a major red flag telling a baby to shut up...
Hi, We went through 5 rounds of ivf , struggled with infertility for years, and were 11 years on our own as a couple before we adopted a 1 year old, and a year later a new born, my husband told me during the first year that he wasn’t happy, with our relationship, I did my best to create time for us alone ,and did all I could to be the perfect family, but I really think that he struggled with not being no 1 anymore. Maybe some Counceling would help him , and you also, because you can’t do everything and take the burden of fixing everything yourself . Good Luck 💛