My 10yo son asked why mostly women change their surnames. I said it goes back to the old ways of ownership. A man would own everything the woman had and control her every move. He was shocked and said “I don’t think that’s right”. I want all 3 of my sons to enter adulthood as patriarchy free as possible. 

I had breast reduction surgery in October 2020 too! Best thing I ever did going from a 14G to a 14D. No more back and shoulder pain. No more overpriced beige bras. I can now shop off the rack from Kmart. Cute crops every day! I’m 45 and wish I’d done it sooner. Women are not put on this earth for men’s viewing pleasure. How dare they think that!