Hi, I just had the white/gray highlights problem, and I spent so much money on it I feel so bad, I had to go to work looking like this... Can you please help me since English is not my first language, should I use anti dandruff shampoo or clarifying shampoo? And since I am not familiar with USA brands, which one do you suggest me? I look like that lady from game of thrones with the dragons, I just want to have beachy blonde sun kissed hair 😭