@ellavera why on earth would that be different? I think it's more about the lie than the act itself from the article anyway.

Babes. I literally just made an account to comment on this post. This does not sound ok. Mr man has done nothing wrong. "He shouldn’t be thinking about her, or even wanting to think about her". But!! I think about my ex all the time, no emotions or feelings involved, but simply as a part of my life that happened. We are all allowed that! I'm in a wonderful relationship, and knowing that I can think fondly of a time in my life without it meaning anything to my current circumstances is wonderful. My boyfriend absolutely does the same probably, fine! We still wake up smiling at each other. "What’s more, I absolutely do not want to think about her".. why? She is just another human, it's ok for your partner to have been with other people. Would you prefer it if he had come into the relationship with no experience and emotional capacity? Babes. Hun. This sort of vigilance in a relash doesn't have to be the norm!