@mamamia-user-482898552 I understand that, and I’m not saying that all child-free women think or feel the same way. Nor am I suggesting that that view would be her entire motivation. I’m saying that as she couldn’t have children, and is also single, that perhaps she’s given more time, energy and thought to presenting in a certain way. 

Great article Mia, I agree. Also wonder if Jen doesn’t feel she has ‘permission’ to not look fuckable because she wasn’t able to have a biological child. I’m not saying mothers aren’t desirable, but as her body never underwent the transition of pregnancy, if she’s not fit she can’t fall back on: “well this body created life”. Although I’m aware we still see many similar examples in Hollywood among those who have had children. Perhaps looking fit is part of her self-worth.

Can totally relate to this. At my previous workplace I had a number of female colleagues tell me to “eat something” because I have always been on the thinner side. I often wondered how they would take it if I said to them to “stop eating” something - which I of course would never do - but it’s interesting how one is perceived as acceptable and the other is not. Some people actually struggle to gain weight, but it’s a difficult conversation to have with people because I’ve found they think you are gloating, and instead of trying to understand your concern say they “wish” they had that problem.