Wow, clearly I am not Mamamia's target audience. To spend this amount of clothing is insanity to me!

@rush yeah agreed. I had a situation where my best friend would always come to me with her issues, and we'd work through them... only for her to come back the next week with the exact same issue. Thing is whenever I'd go to her with any issues, she'd spin it back to her own problems and I felt pretty used. I know this wasn't something she was conscious of doing, she had a very traumatic childhood. In the end when I tried to steer her out of a potentially very controlling and abusive relationship, she ditched me. Sad, but I hope she found her way out of that situation. Not saying that all applies here, just that, yes, hearing this from the other side would be interesting.

Perhaps she felt a bit judged as it seems like you have pretty high expectations of perfection (spiritual, eating habits, inspo memes, only natural cleaning, fitness,  health etc.), even if you weren't consciously trying to imply them? Some people struggle much more than others.