Great way to normalise withholding affection in your relationships by assuming everyone's 41 with low sex drive.

This isn't a new thing, I started dating a girl in October 2020, and she waited until New Years' Eve to finally kiss me back, and the insecurity was real - when we finally had sex, it was so awkward, and took a few attempts to find our rhythm, but I was gaslit into thinking a lack of affection was normal. I've since found humans that love me more freely.

Remember folks, if you withhold affection from someone you're dating, don't be surprised if you are not enough for them. Don't force affection, but don't withhold it either - be organic and authentic instead, whether that's the first date, or the third, or the first month, or the third - but if there's no chemistry end it sooner rather than later.