Erin, you need this bra in your life https://www.lululemon.co.nz/en-nz/p/enlite-weave-back-bra-high-support%2C-a–ddd%28e%29-cups/prod9370109.html. I was the same as you, holding my boobs for fear they’d fall off until a friend recommended this one. Not cheap but it’s worth it! 

I love ethique shampoo, conditioner, lip balms & lip sticks. Have just started using their deep green face wash & am very impressed! Next on the list to try is the ‘quench’ moisturiser 😍 love the brand, their branding & their ethos  ❤️