The division or labour within every household depends on whether one works or both work. If both go out to work, then the house tasks should be shared, but if only one goes out to work, then the stay at home partner takes on a larger percentage of the domestic responsibilities. -  Unfortunately, the over educated don't seem to see this and think everyone else has a lifestyle  that reflects their own.  Every household has a different dynamics and for outsiders to vilify others for the way they run their household when not knowing the situation shows arrogance and lack of intellect.