@blogfly   That thing in the drawer gave me a great deal more enjoyment than any man has ever done.

I see this case as being mutual abuse.  I tend to believe both sides of this story, and it is a sad example of two people who should never have come together.  Both have personality and mental health issues, and the fairest outcome would have been to dismiss the case and share the costs between them both.

My fears of the probably same thing kept me from leaving, and the danger I felt my partner presented.  This was back in the days when women had very little protection.  It was both incredibly painful, but at the same time such a huge relief, when our children left home as soon as they had paid employment in their late teens.  I knew that they were safe.

@guest2  Harry and Meghan have the same right as any other living person to use their experience and position in order to make their living in whichever way they choose.  As far as I can tell, Harry has not been giving away any dirty family secrets, only pointing out facets of royal life expectations that have affected he and his wife.  I see no condemnation of any of the family, rather the reverse - that he loves them very much, and will miss them all.

I read so many comments critical of both Harry and Meghan for giving their reasons for leaving their royal jobs.  Should they not be allowed to give their own side to their story, when they have been so harshly condemned by media for "letting the side down"?  Effectively, they are just like any employees who have resigned from a position they have found to be intolerable to them, regardless whether or not it is a family company.  The media bashing they have received both before and after the split would be enough to drive anyone to unload as they have done, and I hope that they can now find some peace of mind in a new life, wherever they choose.